Through #shibaribondage, I found the power of self advocacy.
When you are being tied, it’s imperative that you communicate your fears, your comfort and discomfort, your feelings of safety, your limitations and capabilities…
There’s no pushing your feelings to the side. Your physical wellbeing is in their hands and YOU are the most precious thing to protect.
For those who struggle with #peoplepleasing, the direct need to clearly communicate these boundaries in such an actionable way can build this skill.
For those who have experienced trauma and never felt like they had a voice, it empowers and emboldens you to honor and advocate for your needs.
Coming into your body in such a connected way can be a powerful experience of self love as you learn to trust yourself, dare to push yourself past perceived limitations, and explore the depths of intimacy and vulnerability with another.
Who would have thought a little bit of rope could be so powerful?
February 8, 2024
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