5 Day Mindset Mastery Challenge: Day 5 - LeZandra Photography - Norfolk Virginia Boudoir Photography

April 28, 2020

5 Day Mindset Mastery Challenge: Day 5

Seduce Yo’Self

Raise your hand if you were taught that masturbation is shameful 🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️🙋‍♀️

I was raised in a very conservative, catholic, and military dominated home. There is a looong list of taboo topics, and go figure, sex is at the top!

Releasing sexual shame has been a lifelong battle that I will arm up for at a moment’s notice.

Pleasure is a birthright.


There are so many reasons to self pleasure, but here are a few of my favorites:

  1. You can relieve so much stress with a little self love
  2. Through self pleasure you learn your body and what your body craves
  3. It makes you happier, improves your libido, and benefits your sleep

What’s not to love about a little self love?!

Our last bit of homework may just be our most fun bit yet!

Day 5: Seduce Yo’Self Challenge

Set aside time for some solo love.

Turn off your phone, light some candles, and put some good tunes on!

Take the expectation of an orgasm OFF the menu. If you find that you struggle to climax, that is 100% normal and okay! Instead focus on the pleasure you give yourself rather than the goal you are seeking.

Switch it up and try new techniques

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