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When it comes to planning your boudoir wardrobe, it’s all about making choices that highlight your beauty, boost your confidence, and create a stunning look that’s uniquely YOU. But not all lingerie is created equal, and some pieces work better than others in helping you shine in front of the camera.

Here’s a breakdown of some popular lingerie options and why one might be the better choice for your session. Plus, I’ve included tips on wardrobe staples that every boudoir drawer needs!

Babydolls vs. Bodysuits

Where did her body go?
That’s exactly what we think when we see babydolls in a boudoir session. While they may be cute and comfy, they often hide your shape under layers of fabric, which goes against everything we’re trying to celebrate here—your curves, your body, your confidence.

If you’re craving a dress-like vibe, there are better options! Consider a flowing, luxurious robe or a skirt paired with a lace bralette. These pieces can be pushed aside or removed to show off your curves while still keeping that flirty, feminine feel.

Why bodysuits are the MVP:
Bodysuits are an absolute game-changer for boudoir photography. They’re universally flattering, hugging your curves in all the right places and showcasing your body’s natural beauty.

  • High cuts: These create the illusion of longer legs and rounder booty—an effect you’ll lose under a babydoll.
  • Endless styles: Whether you prefer something strappy and bold or soft and lacy, bodysuits come in a variety of styles to match your vibe.
  • Customizable coverage: Sleeves, no sleeves, plunging necklines, or full coverage—you can find a bodysuit that’s perfect for you.

Trust me, once you try a bodysuit, you’ll wonder how you ever lived without one in your lingerie drawer.

Merry Widows vs. Garter Sets

Merry widows might sound fancy, but in reality, they’re the equivalent of a long t-shirt in the lingerie world. These pieces tend to double up on material, covering your favorite curves and creating unnecessary bulk. Unless you have a full stylist team à la Victoria’s Secret, these are tricky to style in a way that feels polished and flattering.

Why garter sets win every time:
If stockings are part of your boudoir dream, garter sets are the way to go.

  • Flattering and functional: A garter belt paired with stockings enhances your legs while keeping everything in place.
  • Less is more: Garters frame your curves instead of hiding them, adding just enough detail to elevate your look without overwhelming it.

Stick to a matching bra, panty, and garter set for a cohesive and sultry vibe that’s easy to style and guaranteed to photograph beautifully.

Wardrobe Staples: Must-Have Pieces

No boudoir wardrobe is complete without these essential items. They’re versatile, flattering, and guaranteed to make you feel like a total bombshell.

1. Stockings

Thigh-high stockings add instant flair to any look, but proper fit is key.

  • Sizing tips: Go 1-2 sizes larger than the package recommends to avoid tightness or rolling.
  • Skip the silicone: Anti-slip silicone strips at the top can squeeze uncomfortably and often don’t stay in place. Opt for non-slip styles or use a garter belt to secure them.

2. Fishnets

If you don’t already own a pair of fishnets, it’s time to change that!

  • Confidence boost: These beauties are like a superpower for your wardrobe—they instantly make you feel fierce.
  • Versatile styling: Wear them solo for a bold look, or pair them with high-waisted bottoms for an edgy yet classic vibe.

 

3. High-Waisted Black Bottoms

This staple piece is the holy grail of lingerie.

  • Flattering fit: High-waisted bottoms accentuate your waist and smooth everything out, creating a sleek silhouette.
  • Mix and match: Pair them with a colorful bralette, those fishnets you just added to your cart, or a matching set for endless styling options.

 

Choosing What Works for You

When it comes to boudoir, the right lingerie isn’t about following trends—it’s about finding pieces that make you feel confident, sexy, and unapologetically YOU. Babydolls and merry widows might look pretty on a hanger, but bodysuits and garter sets are where the magic happens.

And don’t forget to stock up on the staples: stockings, fishnets, and high-waisted bottoms are the unsung heroes of boudoir sessions, offering endless versatility and jaw-dropping results.

Ready to start planning your wardrobe? Let’s create something unforgettable together.

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